Regular dating is already a lot of work too but sugar dating is worse. I have a date tomorrow but I'm gonna cancel it because I have a dentist appointment right before and I won't be able to make it in time.
The reason why I think sugar dating is a lot of work is because it takes a lot of effort to go through the trouble of driving somewhere to meet someone that I'm not that into, be forced to actually talk to them and make conversation when nothing is even guaranteed. Like it's not enough to just meet them, now I have to ensure there is "chemistry" and keep working it until the SD is willing to give me my allowance. No matter what happens I am NEVER going to truly like a SD. I don't have any respect for guys who are cheaters, which the majority of the SD's are, plus I don't have any respect really for a guy who thinks he can "buy" a woman. Back when I was making good money I actually DISLIKED men with money. I always thought they were more arrogant, had a sense of entitlement and thought they were hot stuff just because they had some money. Whoopdeedoo.
Actually, if I was looking for true love, I would never aim for someone who was super wealthy or rich. I have a theory that wealthier men are more likely to cheat because they have more options. Most men really are only as faithful as their options. I think that if you marry a wealthy man you WILL have the good life, just don't be surprised when your husband has ten mistresses on the side. That's not true love to me. I would rather be with a poor guy whom I really cared about. The reason why I'm getting into the SD thing is because I have no one, no boyfriend, no significant other PLUS I'm broke and in debt as hell.
I think I just kind of hate the world right now, or mainly hate most guys out there so I'm just going to see "what I can get out of it" for myself, but I can guarantee that I will never feel anything for these guys. That's why it's so much work for me. Ugh.
I suck at sugar dating. So far I haven't gone on one date yet. Mr Adult Play will want to meet soon I think. I don't know if I can go through with that either. Ugh.
For Valentines I didn't do anything. I don't care about Valentines day at all, don't celebrate it. I'm not the romantic, sentimental type. I don't get why some people are so needy that they can't even spend Valentines day alone but have to spend it with their friends etc. I feel like if you truly didn't care about V-day, then it wouldn't matter who you spent it with because it would be a day just like any other day, without any significance or meaning to it. For me, it's just another day and I could really give a rat's ass about it.
Still haven't found a job yet. This really sucks. I think looking for a job on-line is too competitive. I think people who post ads for jobs are probably bombarded with 1000's of e-mails and probably won't even read through all of them. It was much easier back when most people applied through the newspaper. Anyone have any tips on a high paying career yet? If you do let me know...
What have you studied/what field would you be looking to go into? A good resume and strong cover letter are always a good start. And waitressing/retail jobs are usually pretty easy to get depending on where you live.
ReplyDeleteHey, I just found your blog, and I kind of agree with you. Maybe I don't divide them into poor vs rich, all or nothing, but I would definitely rather be with a guy who makes a decent living but who is also has strong values than a millionaire. It's the power that gives men ideas. I recently met a 60 something year old guy who told me one day he woke up next to his wife (who was a working Elite model at the time!) and thought she was "unfuckable". What?
ReplyDeleteHey, Petite.
ReplyDeleteI understand your sentiments.
But at the same time your negative outlook probably isn't the healthiest approach to anything-nevermind sugardating.
Anyways, you could try becoming a CA?
In Canada if you already have a university degree you do the 51-credit route + about 3 years of internship.
Or without it's the 120 credit route- either way you must maintain a B average-but it is much more competitive.
Alternatively-most MBA programs can take you far if you have a good pre-existing track record of splendid work.
Either way, you will have to work on your mathematical ability because there are exceptionally few programs which lead to good jobs without calculus.
Hi Earthy Pearl,
ReplyDeleteThanks for your input. What is a CA?
Unfortunately I don't even have a Bachelor's. That's where the problem lies. I don't even know what I want to major in. I don't really have an strong interest in anything; business, IT etc. The only thing I have a slight interest in is Broadcast Journalism but I don't know if I'm too old. I look very young for my age (Asian) but I don't know if it's too late to try now and have it all be for nothing.
From Sugar, WIth Love
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by! I have heard people use this saying "For every gorgeous woman (supermodel) there is a guy who is tired of F'ing her". It's sad but no matter how hot you are men always crave variety and after they are done with you they'll want something new. That's what I think anyways :(