First Post , Do I Have What It Takes To Be A Sugarbaby?

I am slowly getting my feet wet into the sugar world. I'm probably not doing it for the right reasons (I'm broke and NOT attracted to older men at all) but I guess desperate times call for desperate measures. I have to be honest here, if I was still making the same amount of money I was around 2-3 years ago I never would have considered "sugar dating"; mainly because I'm really shy, introverted, I don't even date regularly (let alone sugar) plus I don't really enjoy meeting new people, it just tends to give me a lot of anxiety.

I have always been attracted to guys who are much younger than me. I have never been with or dated someone older than me. I just am NOT attracted to older guys at all. I don't care if they are more wiser, are more well-mannered, have more life experience etc. If that makes me a bit of a "whore" to be considering dating and potentially end up sleeping with someone that I'm not physically attracted then so be it. Labels don't bother me. Even though I prefer younger guys, for "sugar dating" purposes I will still aim exclusively for the older guys, mainly because I think younger SD guys will be more likely to be into pay for play etc. I just think an older guy is better for SD purposes even though I am not into them at all :(

I put a profile up on SA and so far got around 30 responses or so. I'm not sure as to the exact amount because I deleted a ton of them but it's probably somewhere around that number. I automatically delete people who type "What's up" and one liners. I also delete anyone from out of state. I am not into the whole sugar thing enough in order be traveling out of state just to meet someone due to safety concerns and because I live in the area of LA and OC and there are MORE than enough millionaires here, no need to go anywhere else. I guess I'm really picky, I deleted and ignored most of the guys. If they make around 200k a year etc, I also automatically delete them. I am looking for guys who are making at least 400k a year with net worth over 5 mil preferably.

I set up a new g-mail address to chat with the guys. I admit that I'm lazy about writing back. For some reason I don't feel very enthused about writing back to a 40-50 year old man, it's more like a chore to be honest.

What I'm looking for is an allowance. I am aiming for 2k a month because I feel that's realistic. I think 4k is a bit high and I don't need that much in cash unless it's in gift cards and/or gifts. I have already figured out that I prefer my allowance in either cash or a visa gift card (so that I can pay bills with it).

I prefer a SD that is married and has his own life. I don't want to stay overnight and prefer not to travel with the SD. I'm just not comfortable sleeping next to someone if it's not a real-life boyfriend and having him see me in the morning when I'm not all done up etc.

I'm also looking for someone to mentor me. I'm looking for a career change. I am a bit older actually and thinking about going back to school. I was considering nursing for a while but then I read that contrary to belief there isn't really a nurse job shortage and tons of nurses were complaining about being burned out and 12 hour shifts. Then I considered becoming a dental hygienist but I read on a career forum that a lot of hygienists were complaining about carpal tunnel syndrome and back pain plus having to work part-time for different dentists. Reading Babie Bow's blog made me flirt a bit with the idea of being a flight attendant, I just don't think I could deal with the stressful interview process and the 10 year federally mandated background check. They want 10 years of residence and work history with no gaps whatsoever! I used to move around A LOT when I was younger and I seriously don't have record of some of the places I stayed at.

I know that all the high paying careers are in science and medicine. If I was strong in math and science I would not hesitate to study to become a physician's assistant or chemical engineer etc, it's just that math and science are not my strong points. I am very weak in those areas. However, I do not want a degree in English or Political Science etc. I need something that will actually translate into a well-paying career. I was thinking of working in the IT sector and getting certificates such as MCSE etc but I don't know if I could get hired without hands on experience... ?? Teaching is stable but low pay.

I will need a full-time Sugar Daddy for sure if I go back to school in order to help me out with tuition etc. I just don't know what to do with my life right now.

To be honest, I don't even know if I am EVER going to end up meeting the SD I have been talking to via e-mail. I'm a scaredy cat. Meeting people (anyone) just gives me anxiety in general. I have pretty bad social anxiety. I don't think that's very conducive to SD dating. I'm not the type of person that just "goes for it" in life. I just tend to hem and haw for months before doing something.